Sexy oldie wants a man

I miss the company of a man. I've had one for almost 40 years, and now I've been without one for a while. Good company is what I love, and I hope you're the one who can give me that.

Is that even possible? Flirting with a man my age? I always feel so awkward when I go somewhere and try to get a man's attention. I think: "Old woman, don't be so stupid!" But you hear it often, though, that people find new love later in life. And I'd really like that too. Maybe here?

I do have "single" listed on my profile, but it's a bit different. My husband has dementia and has been in a nursing home for years. Things have gotten to the point where he doesn't recognize me or the children anymore. I visit him every week; it's a real ordeal to see your own husband deteriorate like that. I don't have a married life anymore; what I'm looking for is a man who can accept that I'm still married on paper. I can't bring myself to get a divorce; it feels like a stab in the back for my husband.

Never thought I'd do this. But I'm getting desperate. Two years ago, my husband had an accident. He was hit by a car while he was jogging. He was always very active, and we really clicked in bed, too. We used to do it at least four times a week. Now we don't do it at all anymore. Because he can't do it anymore. It's really awful. For him, but also for me. I have a huge libido, and nothing is being done with it anymore. And I can't handle it anymore. So, dear, naughty men, who can help me discreetly?