Dutch granny wants to date

My job doesn't really do much for me; I dread going to work more and more every day. No nice colleagues, no understanding boss, I'm the butt of the job, the laughingstock of my colleagues. Even my trusted advisor at work doesn't seem to care, so I'm thinking about quitting and enjoying my retirement. That's another point: I'd prefer to enjoy life with a loving man by my side.

Unfortunately, my husband doesn't share my views, but I've done it his way long enough. I believe people can love more than one person and shouldn't limit themselves to one steady partner. I've always done it, but the urge has become too strong now, and I'm really going to start looking for a nice man besides my current partner. We'll see how we develop that, right?

I'm an older woman, but still very active in bed. Unfortunately, I don't have a partner anymore, and I have to help myself to orgasm. It would be wonderful if you could treat me sometime.

I'd condemn anyone else for it, and yet I do it myself, looking for a man alongside my marriage. It's a choice between two evils: a life with a grumpy man without love and affection, or a life with a grumpy man who has love and affection with someone else. So I choose the latter.