Dutch mature wants a man

I'm looking for a lover, a man who knows exactly how to please a woman like me. My boyfriend can't handle me, and besides, I don't see him often, even though my needs are high.

There are ups and downs, I make my own ups.

I'm quitting, my ex said. I asked him about what, and he said about our marriage. "That's never been the case," I told him, "because you never showed any interest in me after our son was born."

Maybe because I've gained some weight in recent years, my boyfriend doesn't want to have anything to do with me anymore, which I find a shame. Because I still have my needs in life.