Dutch grandmother wants to have fun

I do have "single" listed on my profile, but it's a bit different. My husband has dementia and has been in a nursing home for years. Things have gotten to the point where he doesn't recognize me or the children anymore. I visit him every week; it's a real ordeal to see your own husband deteriorate like that. I don't have a married life anymore; what I'm looking for is a man who can accept that I'm still married on paper. I can't bring myself to get a divorce; it feels like a stab in the back for my husband.

I haven't had sex for a while, and even older women crave it. A man around my age who can still perform well in bed is what I'm looking for.

Is there an age limit on these sites? Surely there must be men a bit older than me who are just looking for hot, horny sex. It might not be as fast anymore, but that makes it a lot more enjoyable.

I'm someone who enjoys a bit of variety, especially when it comes to my love life. The latter isn't anything to write home about, so a nice, attractive man is very welcome.