Dutch mature wants a man

It's been a long time since I've had sex. I'm not looking for a relationship here, even though a sexual relationship seems very exciting. Don't let my age scare you off.

I'll never be a beautiful, slim woman again; I am who I am. At my age, I don't feel like worrying about a few extra pounds anymore. There's so much more to enjoy, and that's much more important to me. I want to enjoy myself, but only as a couple, so I'm looking for a nice guy. Fat or thin, small or tall, it doesn't matter to me; it's about the chemistry, not about how someone looks.

I love taking the train on Friday afternoons to go somewhere for a weekend getaway. Sometimes it's within my own country, but sometimes it's to France, Germany, or the Netherlands. Are there other adventurers like that?

Actually, I'm very happy, but I want more. I miss something my partner can't offer. I can't quite put my finger on what I'm missing. Who can help me discover and fill that gap?