Lustful grandmother wants to have sex

What I'm looking for is a nice man who doesn't expect anything crazy from me. Because many men only want to do perverted things with me, and I really don't want that. I'm just looking for a nice person who's kind to me, who lets me live my life the way I want, and who makes my life a little more enjoyable. And if we take it a step further, that's perfectly fine, of course.

When I emigrated to the Netherlands as a teenager, I quickly met the love of my life. I'm still with him, but he's now in a wheelchair. We can no longer do a lot of things together, so he's letting me find another man to do those things with.

I love books and wine, I love yoga and games, maybe these go well together?

No, we're not fighting, and I still get along with my ex. But we were just tired of each other. That happens, and then it's better to move on alone. We still see each other, but it's purely friendly, and that's fine. But I do want to find a man with whom I can feel the passion. Because that's still there, you know!