Lonely granny wants a young guy

A nice guy in bed is what I dream of, someone who still has enough energy to spoil me and let me enjoy all your kisses, caresses and attention.

My husband gave me permission to do it with someone else once. Well, permission... he doesn't believe men are interested in me anymore. So he said: if you can find someone who will do you, you have my blessing. That's permission, right?

I'm really noticing at home that age plays a role, but certainly not for me. I don't want to portray myself as perfect, but I live by the motto: a day without laughter is a day wasted.

The ground has been pulled out from under me; my husband has given me an ultimatum. If I don't lose 30 kilos, he's going to file for divorce. The funny thing is, he's quite overweight himself, weighing 135 kilos. I'm not forcing him to lose weight; I don't know what to do now. Should I lose weight for him, or should I stay true to myself? That's the question I still don't know the answer to.