Holland mature wants a man

My husband thinks you don't need sex at our age anymore. I disagree; he doesn't want to, so I'm going looking!

I was able to completely put my divorce behind me by moving and starting over somewhere new. Now that I've completely renovated my own house, the kids are independent, and everything is working out, I think it's time to let a man back into my life.

My whole life, I've had to hear people tell me I'm not beautiful. Sometimes I even hear people whisper that they think I'm ugly. It hurts. It's made me so insecure. And that's why I've never had a man. Really, never. I'm that insecure. And yet, I'd love to. But then you have to promise me not to judge me by my appearance.

What should I write here? Just the truth. I'm Nellie, an older woman. I'm taking evening classes to become more familiar with computers, and I'm already quite good at using them. That's how I found my way here. I'm a mother, grandmother, and soon to be a great-grandmother. I'm active in various clubs and enjoy gardening, reading, knitting, and crocheting. I'm looking for a kind gentleman who would like to connect. Love, Nellie