Old granny wants to date

Are you a homebody? I am. I really enjoy curling up on the couch for an evening with a cup of tea and a good book. Or watching a good movie together. Then we'll replace the tea with a glass of wine, or a few more. And then it's sure to be a really cozy time...

The ground has been pulled out from under me; my husband has given me an ultimatum. If I don't lose 30 kilos, he's going to file for divorce. The funny thing is, he's quite overweight himself, weighing 135 kilos. I'm not forcing him to lose weight; I don't know what to do now. Should I lose weight for him, or should I stay true to myself? That's the question I still don't know the answer to.

I can be proud of my body, since I'm not exactly a youngster anymore. My husband sees it completely differently, as he's more interested in those young babes. So why shouldn't I let loose and look for a fuck buddy?

Sometimes I think I'm the only one lacking in my marriage. What I want is to enjoy myself, both in everyday life and between the sheets. But that last part isn't happening for me anymore, so I have to be creative and seize my opportunity here. I'm convinced there are plenty of men who still want that.