Dutch grandmother wants young men

Looking for a sweet man. I've been around for a while now, so I'm still getting used to being around a man. But I'm sweet and don't easily get into trouble. If you're not a complicated type either, please respond, and maybe we can become a couple.

I've held back my whole life. There was always someone trying to tell me what to do, and I did. Luckily, I got help from a wonderful person, and I finally started living my own life. It's time for a good man. Not a controlling person, mind you; I've had plenty of those in my life!

Divorce is painful, as the saying goes; for me, it was more of a relief. I didn't come out of the divorce in bad shape either; I'm doing very well financially, and I've been able to stay in the house. The only thing I'm struggling with is being single. I can tell by everything that it doesn't make me happy; I need a man around.

It won't be long before I actually retire. I'm dreading it a bit; being home alone every day isn't exactly my thing. I can visit my children regularly, but I don't want to take them away. I do want a husband who wants to spend quality time with me.