Single grandmother wants to have sex

My name is Charlotte, and I've been single for a while now. I'm fed up with playing with myself, you know? Just give me a great guy to entertain myself with. In every way, of course. It doesn't have to be just in bed!

No one knows my big secret: I've been good friends with a married man for years. He always held me accountable; I was far too gullible. I've learned from this; I won't make that mistake again. I definitely want to find a man, but he needs to be someone who puts me first; I won't settle for anything less.

I've been single for years, but I'd like to give my life a new twist. It's quite boring doing everything alone, and I also experience lonely moments. Feel free to leave a message if you're interested.

The ground has been pulled out from under me; my husband has given me an ultimatum. If I don't lose 30 kilos, he's going to file for divorce. The funny thing is, he's quite overweight himself, weighing 135 kilos. I'm not forcing him to lose weight; I don't know what to do now. Should I lose weight for him, or should I stay true to myself? That's the question I still don't know the answer to.