Lustful mature wants a man

My dark complexion turns off many men, but unfortunately, I can't change that. Inside, I'm just like any other Dutch person. I'm adopted, I've lived in the Netherlands my whole life, and I'm a true Dutch person at heart. I hope to find a man here who sees beyond my dark appearance and doesn't immediately judge me. I don't like being pigeonholed.

For a long time, I protected my ex, always justifying his outrageous behavior. Until I had had enough and ended the relationship. I've been single for seven years now and am looking forward to the man who likes me and whom I can trust completely.

I'm not really a writer. Well, maybe erotic stories, I could do that, haha. But then I'd need some inspiration. Shall we find that inspiration together? Write naughty stories together? Or perform them ourselves—that sounds even better, actually!

What I'm not looking for here is a man to sit on the couch with every night; I do that enough already. I finally want to experience something exciting again, and I also prefer a slightly younger man.