Lonely granny wants a sexdate

I haven't noticed much, if any, of the menopause myself, but my partner really doesn't want much anymore and can be quite moody sometimes. At times like that, I just want to go out and do fun things with someone else. Unfortunately, I haven't found that person yet, but I'm giving it some time.

For a long time, I assumed everyone was pulling my leg when it came to my ex. Back then, I didn't realize he was fooling around with other women and thought he was being honest with me. Unfortunately, that wasn't the case, and I quickly left and started looking for a man I could trust.

The ground has been pulled out from under me; my husband has given me an ultimatum. If I don't lose 30 kilos, he's going to file for divorce. The funny thing is, he's quite overweight himself, weighing 135 kilos. I'm not forcing him to lose weight; I don't know what to do now. Should I lose weight for him, or should I stay true to myself? That's the question I still don't know the answer to.

Being alone is starting to get to me a bit. I really want to meet a man to spend my days with, but I can assure you that there are still many of them.