Hot granny wants a young guy

Looking for a sweet man. I've been around for a while now, so I'm still getting used to being around a man. But I'm sweet and don't easily get into trouble. If you're not a complicated type either, please respond, and maybe we can become a couple.

I'd love to have a partner again, a sweet man who's still very active. I want to go out with you, do fun things, and fully enjoy each other and life.

All I really want is to build good friendships. I'm not aiming for quantity, I'm aiming for quality. For me, friendship also means trust, being there for each other, and respecting each other.

The ground has been pulled out from under me; my husband has given me an ultimatum. If I don't lose 30 kilos, he's going to file for divorce. The funny thing is, he's quite overweight himself, weighing 135 kilos. I'm not forcing him to lose weight; I don't know what to do now. Should I lose weight for him, or should I stay true to myself? That's the question I still don't know the answer to.