Dutch granny wants a sexdate

I am looking for a man without obligations, just for some occasional fun and to do nice things with.

I'll never be a beautiful, slim woman again; I am who I am. At my age, I don't feel like worrying about a few extra pounds anymore. There's so much more to enjoy, and that's much more important to me. I want to enjoy myself, but only as a couple, so I'm looking for a nice guy. Fat or thin, small or tall, it doesn't matter to me; it's about the chemistry, not about how someone looks.

I secretly dream of a secret, erotic, and sexual relationship outside of my marriage. My husband is a bit worn out, but I'm not nearly there yet. I'm still too young to start celibacy, but I don't want to abandon my older husband. I'm looking for a discreet and sweet sexual partner.

Are you okay with us not pursuing a steady relationship? I already have one. And I don't want to give it up, and he can't know. It might be a lot of demands, but you'll get a lot of good things in return. Maybe you're in the same boat as me, which would make things a lot easier.