Dutch grandmother wants to have fun

When I emigrated to the Netherlands as a teenager, I quickly met the love of my life. I'm still with him, but he's now in a wheelchair. We can no longer do a lot of things together, so he's letting me find another man to do those things with.

In my married life, I simply worked way too much. The only thing that mattered to me was my work. Very stupid, of course, because my husband left because I neglected it. And he was absolutely right. Unfortunately, he didn't want to try anymore, but I've learned my lesson. I'm looking for a new man, and I promise I'll give you all my free time.

Art is a common thread throughout my life. My work and even my hobby revolve around it. So it goes without saying that I'm looking for people who share this interest.

How can I possibly introduce myself here? I'm just a very ordinary woman who's had a lot of bad luck in life. Now I can finally find happiness, preferably with a very kind man. I don't expect much, just respect for each other.