Delicious granny wants a sexdate

I'm looking for a kind man who listens. Someone who can also understand certain details.

Divorce is painful, as the saying goes; for me, it was more of a relief. I didn't come out of the divorce in bad shape either; I'm doing very well financially, and I've been able to stay in the house. The only thing I'm struggling with is being single. I can tell by everything that it doesn't make me happy; I need a man around.

I do have "single" listed on my profile, but it's a bit different. My husband has dementia and has been in a nursing home for years. Things have gotten to the point where he doesn't recognize me or the children anymore. I visit him every week; it's a real ordeal to see your own husband deteriorate like that. I don't have a married life anymore; what I'm looking for is a man who can accept that I'm still married on paper. I can't bring myself to get a divorce; it feels like a stab in the back for my husband.

Make my day a little more beautiful.