Lonely granny wants to fuck

The ground has been pulled out from under me; my husband has given me an ultimatum. If I don't lose 30 kilos, he's going to file for divorce. The funny thing is, he's quite overweight himself, weighing 135 kilos. I'm not forcing him to lose weight; I don't know what to do now. Should I lose weight for him, or should I stay true to myself? That's the question I still don't know the answer to.

And yet another woman who's lacking. I know, it's almost getting annoying. But surely there are plenty of men who can't get enough from their husbands, and that's how we can be there for each other. Am I right or not?

I'm not used to it anymore and I want something different, instead of being alone so much since my husband is away on business so often.

After years of heartbreak and disappointments in love, I'm finally taking the plunge and looking for a fun partner to initially have a good time with. If it ultimately leads to something more, that's a bonus, of course.