Dutch oldie wants a sexdate

I secretly dream of a secret, erotic, and sexual relationship outside of my marriage. My husband is a bit worn out, but I'm not nearly there yet. I'm still too young to start celibacy, but I don't want to abandon my older husband. I'm looking for a discreet and sweet sexual partner.

I'm not used to it anymore and I want something different, instead of being alone so much since my husband is away on business so often.

Imagine a romantic candlelit dinner, me in my finest outfit, you sitting opposite me…?

I'm having a great time with my work, which I still love. I still do it for a few hours a week because staying home isn't for me. Who else can I make time for?