Lustful mature wants a man

It would be so nice to just date, have sex together, and have no obligations. I'm not looking for amateurs, but for men who know what to do with a woman like me.

The ground has been pulled out from under me; my husband has given me an ultimatum. If I don't lose 30 kilos, he's going to file for divorce. The funny thing is, he's quite overweight himself, weighing 135 kilos. I'm not forcing him to lose weight; I don't know what to do now. Should I lose weight for him, or should I stay true to myself? That's the question I still don't know the answer to.

Take me to a flea market and I'll come home with bags overflowing with the cutest trinkets. The only downside is that I always have to go alone, and I want to change that.

Do you know what it's like to be married for years and not feel loved? It's always been that way, really; we're not compatible at all. But that's how it was back then, and now we have to live with it. It would be more bearable if I could occasionally connect with a sweet man who might also be a little lonely and wants some company. Maybe we could be of some help to each other. If not, send me a sweet message; I'll reply as soon as possible.