Holland oldie wants a man

Even if something was just okay, not excellent, not perfect. I'm looking for someone nice and comfortable with whom I can get along just fine. I'm hoping for more, of course, but if that's not possible, then okay is fine too.

What's always been important to me is that a man is trustworthy. Looks don't matter to me because you can't rely on them. I would really like to meet a man who thinks like me.

I haven't noticed much, if any, of the menopause myself, but my partner really doesn't want much anymore and can be quite moody sometimes. At times like that, I just want to go out and do fun things with someone else. Unfortunately, I haven't found that person yet, but I'm giving it some time.

It's been four years since my husband died, and I've had to manage on my own all that time. Now that I'm retired, I have plenty of time to meet a man who, like me, is single and looking for a nice woman like me.