Old oldie wants a man

I used to be very shy. And until recently, I still was. But I took a course that's made things much better. My self-confidence has grown considerably, and I've realized I'd actually like to connect with a man. We'd do something fun together and see where it goes. Discreetly, though, as I'm in a relationship.

For me, life has become one big celebration after a difficult period. The loss of a dear friend has made me realize that life is relative. Enjoy it, because it can be over so quickly has become my new motto.

Never thought I'd do this. But I'm getting desperate. Two years ago, my husband had an accident. He was hit by a car while he was jogging. He was always very active, and we really clicked in bed, too. We used to do it at least four times a week. Now we don't do it at all anymore. Because he can't do it anymore. It's really awful. For him, but also for me. I have a huge libido, and nothing is being done with it anymore. And I can't handle it anymore. So, dear, naughty men, who can help me discreetly?

Regularly going to a market, a weekend out of town, or a day at the sauna. Those are things I really enjoy, I have to say.