Holland mature wants a man

I often hear that I look much younger than I am, which is always nice to hear, of course. Maybe I'll even have a chance to meet a much younger man. I certainly don't like stiff guys.

Do you still want a woman who is a bit older? I thought men wouldn't be interested anymore, but my daughter told me that wasn't true at all and that I shouldn't be so insecure. That there are plenty of men who are also single and don't want to be anymore, and that they might be just as insecure as I am. Is that true? Then write to me, that would be really nice!

I'm done with it! With this eternal aloneness! Everyone around me says it's so nice for me that I don't have to worry about anything, but meanwhile, they're all living their own lives with their own little families. And I'm just sitting there alone. I don't want that anymore, and I won't do it anymore. I'm going to find a man here to share my life with, and I'm sure I'll succeed!

I try my hardest to look attractive for my husband, but it's all a waste of time. Since the kids left home, he hasn't paid much attention to me, so I'm looking for a man who does.