Holland granny wants a young guy

The kids have left home, and my youngest son has finally become independent. I did put pressure on him, though, because living with your mother at 40 isn't a healthy situation. It's time to choose myself, time to start looking for a loving man who wants to make a difference with me.

My friends say just be honest, so I'd be honest too. I've been through a rough patch and was depressed for a while because I had one set of bad luck after another. Now I'm back and maybe even stronger than ever.

Older, but very modern, you know. So that's why I'm also going online to find a man. I see it happening all around me, so maybe there's a man my age (or younger, of course) who's also that modern and can find me this way.

I thought that if we like each other, we should go on a date soon. I think grabbing a bite to eat would be nice, and then I'd like to get to know you better to see if we click.