Lonely grandmother wants to have fun

No one knows my big secret: I've been good friends with a married man for years. He always held me accountable; I was far too gullible. I've learned from this; I won't make that mistake again. I definitely want to find a man, but he needs to be someone who puts me first; I won't settle for anything less.

I always love feeling the sun on my skin. Even in the winter sun, I love drinking a cup of coffee outside. If you can't enjoy the little things anymore, isn't life worth much?

I can't see very well without my glasses, but that's my only drawback.

In our circles, it's not very common to do something fun with another man. It often becomes a topic of conversation, but I absolutely can't stand that.