Holland grandmother wants to have fun

Nobody guesses my age correctly; everyone thinks I'm much younger, but here I have to admit it. I'd like to meet a man with whom I can grow old and who will make my life even more enjoyable than it already is.

Because I was always there for my mother, I never had time for myself. My mother was single and seriously ill, and I was her caregiver until her death. After her death, I fell into a deep hole, but thankfully, with professional help, I managed to escape. I have a positive outlook on life again, can laugh again, and can enjoy life again.

I'm quitting, my ex said. I asked him about what, and he said about our marriage. "That's never been the case," I told him, "because you never showed any interest in me after our son was born."

Yes, I am in a relationship, but we are not on the same page and we do not live together.