Old granny wants to date

I've been single for over a year now. My ex left, and I haven't seen or heard from him since. The loneliness is what I struggle with the most. I've already banished my ex from my mind, and a nice man who keeps me company regularly is more than welcome.

Sometimes I think it's hopeless, I had it all figured out but bad luck keeps following me.

My husband doesn't feel like doing fun things with me anymore and prefers to just sit on the couch all day with his drinks. So I took the plunge and signed up here. Who knows what will happen, and I'm open to anything.

Are you okay with us not pursuing a steady relationship? I already have one. And I don't want to give it up, and he can't know. It might be a lot of demands, but you'll get a lot of good things in return. Maybe you're in the same boat as me, which would make things a lot easier.