Holland grandmother wants to have sex

I'm as crazy as a hatter, put me at a party and I'll be the life of the party. Just a heads-up, though: you'll need to be able to handle this.

I've been looking for a man with similar interests for a while now. So many men say a lot but don't follow through when it really matters. Most people my age aren't really interested anymore. I, on the other hand, am just as interested now as I was 20 years ago.

I don't see retirement coming anytime soon. I'm a busy bee; I can't imagine sitting still. I do enjoy relaxing in the evenings with a glass of wine, but I'd like to do that with a nice man. Could you give me my freedom and be there for me when I need it?

The ground has been pulled out from under me; my husband has given me an ultimatum. If I don't lose 30 kilos, he's going to file for divorce. The funny thing is, he's quite overweight himself, weighing 135 kilos. I'm not forcing him to lose weight; I don't know what to do now. Should I lose weight for him, or should I stay true to myself? That's the question I still don't know the answer to.