Single grandmother wants to have sex

After a turbulent period in my life, I've completely calmed down and am looking for a man to enjoy life together.

Hesitantly, I created a profile... I believe more in personal contact... I discover whether there's a connection or not over a cup of coffee and a good conversation... but then you have to meet someone first... so take the plunge and let me surprise you.

I do have "single" listed on my profile, but it's a bit different. My husband has dementia and has been in a nursing home for years. Things have gotten to the point where he doesn't recognize me or the children anymore. I visit him every week; it's a real ordeal to see your own husband deteriorate like that. I don't have a married life anymore; what I'm looking for is a man who can accept that I'm still married on paper. I can't bring myself to get a divorce; it feels like a stab in the back for my husband.

I still enjoy going out for dinner and drinks. But I notice my friends around me are no longer willing to do so. But I don't want to be stuck behind the geraniums.