Old grandmother wants young men

I'll never marry again, that much is certain; you'll know exactly where you stand. I do need a loving husband, but personally, I believe you can be happy even without a marriage certificate. I don't need a marriage certificate to be kind to a man.

The ground has been pulled out from under me; my husband has given me an ultimatum. If I don't lose 30 kilos, he's going to file for divorce. The funny thing is, he's quite overweight himself, weighing 135 kilos. I'm not forcing him to lose weight; I don't know what to do now. Should I lose weight for him, or should I stay true to myself? That's the question I still don't know the answer to.

Nothing's happening between us anymore. It makes sense, too. My husband is almost ninety, so that's really out of the question. But I'm a bit younger, and everything's still fine with me, so I'm willing to keep going. Should we meet up sometime to have some serious fun? Young men are welcome to respond, or is that wishful thinking?

Never thought I'd do this. But I'm getting desperate. Two years ago, my husband had an accident. He was hit by a car while he was jogging. He was always very active, and we really clicked in bed, too. We used to do it at least four times a week. Now we don't do it at all anymore. Because he can't do it anymore. It's really awful. For him, but also for me. I have a huge libido, and nothing is being done with it anymore. And I can't handle it anymore. So, dear, naughty men, who can help me discreetly?