Old grandmother wants young men

At my age, I can't complain about my looks, but my character is also very good. That's what matters, of course. I hope to find a man here with whom I have a lot in common, can do fun things together, and can have a good conversation on a high level.

This is for all the handsome men in the Netherlands! Seriously, even if you're not that handsome, you're welcome to apply. I really see right through that. Beauty means nothing to me. Character does. You have to be beautiful on the inside, then you'll automatically become beautiful on the outside. So if this sounds appealing, I'd love to hear from you.

I'm a woman who loves her freedom. I'm certainly not bossy, but I just love my space and freedom, and I definitely don't like jealousy, although I sometimes feel that myself.

The ground has been pulled out from under me; my husband has given me an ultimatum. If I don't lose 30 kilos, he's going to file for divorce. The funny thing is, he's quite overweight himself, weighing 135 kilos. I'm not forcing him to lose weight; I don't know what to do now. Should I lose weight for him, or should I stay true to myself? That's the question I still don't know the answer to.